Presents

[xr8 007]

Whats everyones honest opinion on the following?

(first senario)
Your girfriend goes overseas, and the only present she gives you is the same present she gives her boss, and to add to further insult its she really hates the boss???

(second senario)
Your girlfriend wants to give you a watch. but this watch was meant to be for her previous boyfriend but that relationship ended and she never had a chance to give it to him?? Take it or tell her to keep it as it was never intended for you in the first place and you should'nt take hand me downs from your partner??

Opinions anyone??

[Auslandau]

Originally Posted by xr6007

Whats everyones honest opinion on the following?

(first senario)
Your girfriend goes overseas, and the only present she gives you is the same present she gives her boss, and to add to further insult its she really hates the boss???

(second senario)
Your girlfriend wants to give you a watch. but this watch was meant to be for her previous boyfriend but that relationship ended and she never had a chance to give it to him?? Take it or tell her to keep it as it was never intended for you in the first place and you should'nt take hand me downs from your partner??

Opinions anyone??

(third senario)
Out looking for a brand new girlfriend!!!!!!!



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[RogueDriver]

But only after you have the watch!

[eb_5litre]

Take the watch and get with her sister or mum..... or both.

[xr8 007]

good stuff guys, keep it comming

[eb_5litre]

How come you didnt go overseas with her?

[trick_xd]

Originally Posted by auslandau

(third senario)
Out looking for a brand new girlfriend!!!!!!!

I agree ..

Next does she want to call you her X's special names ?

[xr8 007]

Next does she want to call you her X's special names ?

ahahahah could you imagine

How come you didnt go overseas with her?

cause her trip was planned before we meet, and it wasnt for long..

[svo347]

Mate if you love her dont look so far into it

[Mark^^]

Take the present and hand it over to your boyfriend, and then just describe her as your fag hag.

[3vXT]

Originally Posted by Mark^^

Take the present and hand it over to your boyfriend, and then just describe her as your fag hag.

Thats a bit harsh isn't it

[Mark^^]

Originally Posted by ken2903

Thats a bit harsh isn't it

No, but may have not come out well. I was more talking from my own experience and not inplying he was gay.

My apologies if this was taken the wrong way

[3vXT]

Offensive or not it made me laugh

[xr8 007]

I'm Not Laughing

[3vXT]

Originally Posted by xr6007

I'm Not Laughing

ok then...

If its not Christmas or my B'day, I'd be happy that my GF brought me back a present at all, and...

If it bothered me too much about the watch (i think it would bother me) i'd just explain the situation to her politely and see what she says. If she was an twat about it, it would give me a better idea of what kind of person she was.

[[Tonko]]

How long have you been together?
**EDIT** i get it now

[DoreSlamR]

She should have sold the watch and used to money to get you something.....

[Walt Kowalski]

Mate Here sone advice from an old bull. A bull who has been in many paddocks (including some really amazing ones) and now settled very happily with the enviable dream wife.

Open the door for her when she gets in the passenger side. If she in turn reaches over to open your door before you get to the other side, she's worth thinking further about.

Might be a keeper.

If she doesn't it is a sign of things to come.

Keep doing the door thing (and other gentlemanly things) without letting on.

If she still doesn't respond the right way after numerous times, talk to her and see how she reacts.

Or you could just take the watch and prove all men are b's.

[gtfpv]

chill . if you cant chill. then forget it. the fact you are unsure means . chill . and give it a rest.

[gtfpv]

i hate how i can always relate . i have lived a while though , so i guess that is why. a watch arrived from overseas for my wife from a work friend of hers . it was his dead grand mas watch. and aparantely he didn't have anyone special to give it to so he gave it to my wife because he thought she was nice . i brushed it aside for a whole . i dont know 8 hours . then left her .
she sent the watch back and then i came back . so i know how you feel. but seriously . just chill. if continual things like this happen then keep reading post #18

[XRMATE]

If you take the watch you may get sex right ? :
so no question
sex and then cash converters lol

[onfire]

Originally Posted by auslandau

(third senario)
Out looking for a brand new girlfriend!!!!!!!

Yeah, your girlfriends cheap, or she doesnt quite feel they way you do and its a matter of giving presents, for simply giving presents.. theres no thought in it, and no emotion at that.

On what Munroman said.. basically, you keep opening doors, paying for dinner, etc etc and she doesnt try to have it any other way.. take the watch and her into cash converters.

[DJR David]

Take the watch.

When she asks what time it is, tell her it's time she farqed off :

[Geez Louise]

I think that it's a bit harsh! What did you get her for a last gift? Maybe it's payback? Girls normally love shopping....of any kind! Heck. I even go car parts shopping if it means I can shop!!

[Ringo]

Originally Posted by DJR David

Take the watch.

When she asks what time it is, tell her it's time she farqed off :

Gold....pure gold DJR David


What would I do?....get another girlfriend....this one isn't a keeper.

I have been in exactly the same situation. My English born (ex)girlfriend had saved for some time to go 'home' for 3 weeks. During this time I paid for heaps of stuff when we went out because she was saving her cash...(and I was doing a lot of my thinking with the little head...)

So while she was away no phone calls and no postcards (pre email days).... 3 weeks turned into 4 and a bit weeks without telling me (hello?) and all I got a frikken t-shirt from her when she got back. Seperation did not make her heart grow fonder obviously and when confronted she had p1ss poor reasons for her lack of human decency to the BF who had helped her have her trip....she actually got flicked at that confrontation and haven't looked back.

[FRDGAL]

Originally Posted by xr6007

Whats everyones honest opinion on the following?

(first senario)
Your girfriend goes overseas, and the only present she gives you is the same present she gives her boss, and to add to further insult its she really hates the boss???

(second senario)
Your girlfriend wants to give you a watch. but this watch was meant to be for her previous boyfriend but that relationship ended and she never had a chance to give it to him?? Take it or tell her to keep it as it was never intended for you in the first place and you should'nt take hand me downs from your partner??

Opinions anyone??

Scenario 1 confuses me lol. Why is your girlfriend handing out presents before she leaves? Meant to give presents when you get back no?

Scenario 2 is simple. Just tell your girlfriend that although it's a nice gesture, you're offended & explain why. She's your partner so you should be able to talk about things honestly. How long ago did she buy the watch? If she has the receipt, perhaps she can take you to the store and swap it for something you would like or tell her to pop it on Ebay. If it sells, she can buy you something else. She may not even realise that offering it to you may have offended you. She probably thought you might like it. Unless you talk to her you won't know. If it were me I'd politely say that I was offended and explain why. Simple

Originally Posted by XRMATE

If you take the watch you may get sex right?

Isn't that the wrong way 'round? She benefits from that. It would be her motive not his lol. He's not the one giving her the watch lol.

[Outbackjack]

Originally Posted by Mark^^

Take the present and hand it over to your boyfriend, and then just describe her as your fag hag.

That remind me of a mate of mine that was in the army, he called GF .05 I spent weeks wondering why he called her that. I finally asked him..... his answer, "oh, she's the bag I blow in when I'm P****d" I felt sorry for her, she was really quite a nice person.

As to the original post.... get a new girl freind. Preferably one that has a sence of a relationships value.

[T-BOOST]

Originally Posted by FRDGAL

Scenario 2 is simple. Just tell your girlfriend that although it's a nice gesture, you're offended & explain why. She's your partner so you should be able to talk about things honestly. How long ago did she buy the watch? If she has the receipt, perhaps she can take you to the store and swap it for something you would like or tell her to pop it on Ebay. If it sells, she can buy you something else. She may not even realise that offering it to you may have offended you. She probably thought you might like it. Unless you talk to her you won't know. If it were me I'd politely say that I was offended and explain why. Simple

I couldn't have said it better myself.
And i wouln't be taking the watch, no way! it would probably remind her of the ex every time she looked at it.

Just a question, did she brake it off or the ex? im guessing the ex as she had bought him a watch. Id be a little concerned

[irlewy86]

Originally Posted by Outbackjack

That remind me of a mate of mine that was in the army, he called GF .05 I spent weeks wondering why he called her that. I finally asked him..... his answer, "oh, she's the bag I blow in when I'm P****d" I felt sorry for her, she was really quite a nice person.

As to the original post.... get a new girl freind. Preferably one that has a sence of a relationships value.

hahahahah

Oh god I laughed so hard I almost died, took me 5 minutes to get off the floor.

[xr8 007]

hey all UPDATE..

Thanks to all for the replies. heaps made me laugh my A$$ off. I dumped the girl,wohooo i honestly never felt so better. honestly. the girl was just a pain...

thanks again